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Today, many Muslim women struggle to balance their roles as daughters, wives, mothers, and strong individuals. It’s not easy, and the pressure can sometimes feel overwhelming. So, how can you manage it all? Who can you look to as your role model?

That is none but the beloved daughter of the Prophet (PBUH), Fatima (RA). Her life teaches us so much. She was a loving daughter, a devoted wife, a strong mother, and a faithful woman who balanced her many roles with greatness.

Do you want to learn how her example can inspire you? Read on and discover the timeless lessons from Fatima’s (RA) life.

Who Was Fatima (RA) 

Fatima (RA) was the youngest and the most beloved daughter of the Prophet (PBUH) and Khadija (RA). She holds a very special place in Islamic history. She is also called ‘Az-Zahra’ (the Splendid) and is known as one of the women of paradise. Many Hadiths talk about her good qualities, showing that she was patient, pure, content, and always thankful to Allah. She was a symbol of kindness and wisdom who continues to inspire us even today.

Anas bin Malik reported that the Prophet (PBUH) had said,

“Four women are sufficient for you as the (best) women of the world: Maryam daughter of Imran, Asiyah wife of Pharaoh, Khadijah daughter of Khuwaylid and Fatimah daughter of Muhammad.”

(Musnad Ahmad, vol. 3, P. 135)

Her Childhood

If we talk about Fatima’s (RA) childhood, it was far from typical. As a child, she had little chance for play or leisure. She was only four or five years old when the Prophet (PBUH) was preaching the message of Allah. From a very young age, She understood the struggles and challenges of the Prophet (PBUH) as a Messenger. 

Let me share with you one incident that will really move us all. One day, young Fatima (RA) witnessed her father, praying in the courtyard of Kaaba when some of his enemies threw filth and guts of the camel on his back. Without hesitation, she rushed over and, with her small hands, cleared the dirt from him while shedding tears (Sahih Bukhari, book 4, no. 241). You can see how, even in her early childhood, she stood by her father, took care of him and empathised with him.

Fatima (RA): The Role Model We Need Today

She is an extraordinary personality in the history of Islam and beyond. She is, no doubt, a perfect role model of a caring daughter when dealing with her father, a perfect role model of a supportive wife when dealing with her husband, and likewise a perfect role model of a devoted mother. On top of all, she is the manifestation of faith, modesty, and strength.

Here’s the breakdown:

1. Fatima (RA): A Caring Daughter Of The Prophet (PBUH)

After her mother Khadija (RA) passed away, Fatima (RA) took on an even bigger role in caring for her father, the Prophet (PBUH), who was going through deep pain and sadness. Because of her love and care for him, she was called ‘Ummu Abiha’, meaning “The Mother of Her Father.” 

Fatima (RA) was a loving and obedient daughter. She deeply cared for her parents and likewise, she won their love and respect. Our Prophet (PBUH) loved her so much that he would stand up whenever she came to him.

Ayesha (RA) reported,

“I have not seen any one of God’s creation resemble the Prophet (PBUH) more in speech, conversation, and manner of sitting than Fatima (RA). When the Prophet (PBUH) saw her approaching he would welcome her, stand up and kiss her, take her by the hand and sit her down in the place where he was sitting.”

(Al-Adab Al-Mufrad)

Fatima (RA) showed us how to treat our parents with true love and devotion. We can follow her example by making dua for them, supporting them, and showing our love in meaningful ways. 

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2. Fatima (RA) And Her Marriage: A Great Example of Women’s Marriage Rights

When we think of ideal marriage in Islam, we often talk about the marriage of Fatima (RA) and Imam Ali (RA). Let’s get into the details to find out why:

Her Marriage 

When Ali (RA) came for his marriage proposal to Fatima (RA), he was too shy to express his wish, so the Prophet (PBUH) smiled and asked, 

"Maybe you have come for the marriage proposal of Fatima?"

Ali (RA) confirmed, and the Prophet (PBUH) explained that others had asked for her hand, but Fatima (RA) never showed approval. The Prophet (PBUH) then spoke to Fatima (RA) and asked for her opinion. Out of modesty, Fatima (RA) remained silent, and the Prophet (PBUH) declared,

"God is the Greatest. Her silence is proof of her agreement."

This story of Fatima’s (RA) marriage beautifully shows the respect and freedom women have in choosing their husbands in Islam. Even the Prophet (PBUH) did not proceed without his daughter’s consent, showing how important a woman’s choice is in such matters. Her example reminds us that Islam values the rights of women, making her a powerful role model for women today.

Fatima's (RA) Life After Marriage 

In our marital life, we all want to live in prosperity, we want to have a very good life. Imagine the daughter of the Prophet (PBUH) married Ali (RA), however, they were very poor. She still stood by him in all circumstances. After her marriage, she used to work very hard. Life wasn’t as easy back then, without the technologies we rely on today. She would grind wheat by hand to make bread, doing it all herself. There's even one Hadith where Fatima (RA) came to the Prophet (PBUH) asking for a servant. 

He said,

“May I inform you of something better than that? When you go to bed, recite ‘Subhan Allah’ thirty three times, ‘Alhamdulillah’ thirty three times, and ‘Allahu Akbar’ thirty four times.’” Ali (RA) added, “I have never failed to recite it ever since…”

(Sahih Bukhari, 5362)

The life of Fatima (RA) and Ali (RA) was filled with friendliness and love. About that Ali (RA) said that he never angered her or forced her to do something (unwillingly) until Allah took her to a better world. She also did not anger him nor did she disobey him in anything at all. When he looked at her, his grief and sorrow were relieved (Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 43, p. 133).

3. Fatima (RA): The Mother Of Infallible Imams 

Fatima Bint Muhammad (RA) was mother to two sons (Al-Hasan and Al-Husain) and two daughters (Umme Kulthum and Zainab). There is no doubt that to a very large extent, the child is a mirror of his or her parents, especially of the mother. Fatima (RA) took great care of her children and taught them courage, faith, and patience in the best way. As a result, they led a pious and courageous life, always standing up against injustice.

She brought them up with compassion and love. As Muslim mothers, it's always confusing how to raise your children with the core values of Islam, and no doubt, Fatima (RA) is a great example for all Muslim mothers in this regard. 

4. Fatima (RA): The Woman of Faith and Leadership

As we earlier mentioned an incident when Fatima (RA) asked for a servant from the Prophet (PBUH). He advised her to seek eternal help (the remembrance of Allah) instead of material help. Rather than becoming upset at not receiving help, Fatima (RA) was happy because she knew this advice was better for her. 

Further, Fatima’s (RA) exceptional role as the leader of women can be understood through the specific event of Mubahila. In 10 AH, a group of Christians from Najran argued with the Prophet (PBUH) about Isa (RA). Allah instructed the Prophet (PBUH) to challenge them to a mutual malediction to reveal the truth. He brought Hasan (RA), Husain (RA), Fatima (RA), and Imam Ali (RA) with him. When the Christians saw the noble faces of the Prophet's family, they backed out and agreed to pay taxes instead. Fatima (RA) being the only woman present showed that she was a great example for all Muslim women (Sahih Muslim, vol. 5).

5. Fatima (RA): The Woman Of Modesty

Throughout her life, Fatima (RA) was known for being modest and humble. Even when she passed away, she requested for her burial to take place at night so people would not see her figure. Even in the face of death, Fatima (RA) ensured that she remained modest.

Such moments from her life remind us how vital it is to uphold our modesty for the sake of Allah. We should nurture our haya (modesty) as it is a crucial part of our Iman (faith). To help you embrace this beautiful value, explore our premium collection of hijabs. Shop now and let your grace shine through while staying true to your modesty! 

Lessons For Muslim Women 

Indeed, Fatima’s (RA) life is the best example for all the women of the world. Some of the lessons we can learn from her life are the following:

1. We should stay devoted to our faith in Allah in every aspect of our life.

2. We should cherish our parents and treat them in the best manner.

3. As a wife and a mother, we should support our family with love and compassion.

4. We should show courage and patience in times of difficulty.

5. We should practise modesty and humility just like Fatima (RA).

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Conclusion

In summary, Fatima (RA) is indeed the perfect role model for all the women of the world. She was a lovely daughter, a supportive wife, and a devoted mother. Above all, she was a woman of strong faith, strength, patience, and leadership throughout her life. No doubt, her life is the best example for all women out there in every aspect of life.

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